26 09 2009

WELP folks there goes another week! AHHHH where does the time go? I’m so glad you guys stopped by just be4 you hit the streets! Always good to see your face , and boy oh boy family we need to make up for time lost this week with the WEEKLY WRAP UP! Not sure if ya”ll are ready for all the T i’m about to spill but what the hey, let’s get this thang started cus  like road trip PEE I can hardly hold it in. *CheeZ*


FIRST UP! Alrite fam so who saw Jay on Oprah yesterday. Don’t you dare act surprised I told you weeks ago he’d be on!* side eye* Can’t say I wasn’t upset that he didn’t get the entire show becuase it was just that good of an interview but I was so happy to see Oprah finally stop hating on rap!!  After denying numerous rap artist access to her show looks like she finally found her way off her high horse! *AppLaUSe* If you missed it no worries don’t loose sleep just cus I love you so much I’ve posted it the footage! Thank me later*CheeZ* P.S. Look out for a appearnce by SOLANGE on Oprah in the next few weeks, but you ain’t hear that from me. *pointer finger over my lips*


NEXT! Listen i’ve been walking around all week with this new music in my purse for you guys, so without any introduction I’m about to unload a weeks worth of NEW MUSIC for you right about…..NOW! Put ya hands out,close ya eyes, and open ya ears, here goes nudin!

I interrupt your regular programming to ANNOUNCE THAT :I live for tHis SOng—-> Hope you do @ after you heaR it!

Where she been at? *Kanye shoulder shrug* Who cares glad she’s back!—>


NEXT! Alrite Alrite so my purse is lighter but I still need to dish out some new videos for you that have been burnin up the internet for a few days now! As if the Drake joint isn’t hot already the cameo’s and video are hotter!!PEEP IT–>


NEXT! Ya”ll know how I feel about Aubrey.*sigh* I don’t tear people to shreds in this house but who complains about nuddie pics after performing at PeepShow? They’ve already seen what you have so what’s the big deal? Well poor Aubrey is battling the blogs n tabloids and after this post I gotta admit I feel sorry for her and her self-esteem issues. Maybe if she keeps her clothes on more often she”ll have less issues? Just an idea…. 



NEXT! It’s that time again … THE FASHION FORWARD UPDATE. Only da hotness for my loves. *heart* HERE YA GO!


Converse Weapon EVO /$90.00 /www.converse.com

The Marunouchi  By Lifetime Collective $79.00
The Marunouchi By Lifetime Collective $79.00
The Look At This Tee/ By Crooks and Castles/  $32.00
The Look At This Tee/ By Crooks and Castles/ $32.00
The Brunettes Flutter By Rebel Yell $57.00
The Brunettes Flutter By Rebel Yell $57.00
The One Pussy Tee/ By Dimepiece Designs/ $34.00
The One Pussy Tee/ By Dimepiece Designs/ $34.00
The Michelle Heel in Pewter/By Jeffrey Campbell Shoes /$120.00
The Michelle Heel in Pewter/By Jeffrey Campbell Shoes /$120.00


NEXT! DRAMA DRAMA DRAMA ya”ll. According to necolebitchie.com Swizz Betaz wife Mashonda is looking for an explanation from Alicia Keys regarding Alicia’s recent tweets on how in love she is with Swizz. Listen ya”ll the real kicker is Swizz and Alicia have been dating for sometime now ya’ll but technically Swizz and Mashonda are still legally married.  Poor Mashonda seems to just be looking for some type  of closure  with Alicia and I agree  she rightfully deserves that much since Mashonda and Swizz do have a son that will be around Alicia at some point. With that said check out Mashonda’s Tweet to Alicia yesterday that was pretty classy and may I add well put…

After having a great evening with my son and enjoying some fun twit chat, I decided to sign off and get some work done. However, a few hours later I was advised that I should check @aliciakeys twit page. I’ve never reached out to her on twitter before. I feel our issues are a lot more serious than a website conversation. Not to mention that I’ve reached out to her many times in the beginning of this whole thing, as any wife would do. Unfortunately, I never succeeded in getting a response. The 1st time I meet AK, my husband introduced us to each other at an event. ( I have no choice but to call him my husband, until he is not anymore) In the messages that I sent to her (AK), I made it very clear that on the contrary of what she might be hearing, I am still married to my husband, living with him and just had a child. Its been two years and I still have not received a response. What I do receive, is constant displays of selfishness and disconcern to me and my son.

I was a fan of AK’s last album, we were both signed to J Records and I always checked up on her projects. I sang her songs and admired her for creating Superwoman and Karma, I would never deny her, her talent. I believed in her until I found out she was possibly sleeping with my husband. The affair was denied by both, until it was finally admitted months later.

Already I can hear some of you saying ” why are u blaming her, You cant make someone leave their wife, You cant break something thats broken”. Well, my marriage was not broken, as far as I knew we were celebrating our sons birth and getting ready to celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary . Call it blind love, whatever. I call it being a devoted wife.. As far as me blaming her and not blaming him, thats false. Me and my husband have worked out our differences. We are in a good place as people and as parents. I accept his choices and I am comfortable enough with myself to move on. I am so very blessed in many ways.

My concern with AK is no longer the fact that she assisted in destroying a family but that she has the audacity to make these selfish comments about love and wanting to be with someone, even after knowing their situation. How is this the same Superwoman that I sang out loud with in my truck? I ask myself sometimes.

If you are reading this Alicia, let me start by saying, you know what you did. You know the role you played and you know how you contributed to the ending of my marriage. You know that I asked you to step back and let me handle my family issues. Issues that you helped to create.
Im not saying everything was perfect all the time but no relationship is perfect. We made a vow to God and I believe you should have respected that, as a woman. I know you owe me or my son nothing but I just wish you would’ve handled things more carefully. I’m not judging you, I put you and the whole situation in the hands of God, the Higher Power. Just know that as a woman, I expected so much more from you. I never had intentions on reaching out to you this way but after reading your twits tonight, and the constant disregard, you left me no choice. I feel that after 1 and a half years of you hiding this affair and acting like it doesnt exist, that now is the time to confront it, since you talk so openly about it now

This is not a publicity stunt, I dont have a record coming out. I just need to close this chapter in my life and that means confronting our issues. There is a small child involved. His dad loves him to death and he wants to spend more time with him but hes afraid because he knows we don’t have a relationship. This is my main concern. My son NEEDS his dad and I NEED to be comfortable with you. For him!

I know many will see my point and many will not be able to look into what’s real because they only want to see Alicia Keys the celebrity, not the human. This is not for the “people”, this is for you. Like I said I was left no choice but to reach out to you this way. By now, Im sure you want to find a balance in this as well.

I read your tweets tonight and I felt they were very insensitive. You have no idea how much pain I was caused because of this affair. Its baffling to me that you don’t understand what I might have gone through with this situation. I dont consider myself a victim anymore, Ive learned alot from this! I just ask you to try and be a bit more realistic and delicate to the situation, at least until my divorce is final. I felt me attending the party would have been a starting point for us, since you shook my hand after I offered it, but I suppose I was wrong.

If its so, that you and my husband are meant to be together, then God bless you both and I hope you never have to deal with what I did. I would not wish it on my worst enemy. If you two being together forever is the case, its more of a reason for us to get along, because I’m not going anywhere. Theres a child to be raised.

To answer your tweet, choose smart over spark. Sparks burn everyone, be smart! Its simple actually, just think of the shoe being on the other foot.

Stay blessed and lets work this thing out with respect and dignity.”

Am I the only one who wants to call Alicia and ask her about this now? lol SMH I guess we”ll have to wait to see if Alicia keeps ignoring Mashonda lol BUT Mashonda says she will post this everyday until she gets a response. Somethign has to be said for persistance right? Right?



NEXT! okay last but not least i guess i’ll contribute to the rumor mill with the news that Souljah Boy and video vixen Rosa Acosta are engaged! If you have no clue who this chick is much like me… PEEP who the lucky lady is “rumored” to be—>

Well well well i’m sure Momma Souljah will be pleased lol IDK folks i”ll keep you posted on this rumor as it’s revealed!


Well family that’s a wrap for this week! I’m exhausted from today’s rant but before I jump into this weekend I want to  send congrats to Klhoe Khardashian and Lamar Odom and their engagement…

Who woulda thunk it? Hmmm… Oh and I want to wish “The KIng of the South”, T.I. of course, a happy belated birthday! Celebrate life this weekend and kick off your week or day with my fav T.I.  joint! If you never bumped this song at some point in your life you missed out! SMH Signing off with hugs and FreNCh KIsseS XoxoXO ENJOY!:)





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